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Column: Lantern floating mingles old traditions

By Keola Beamer, May 25, 2025.
Originally published in Star-Advertiser

Keola Beamer is a Native Hawaiian musician and elder. (Courtesy photo)

Each Memorial Day, as the sun dips low over Ala Moana Beach Park, the waters of Honolulu shimmer not just with light — but with hope, remembrance and aloha. Participating in the Shinnyo Lantern Floating Hawai‘i ceremony has become, for me, one of the most profound spiritual experiences of my life. As a Native Hawaiian elder tracing my roots back centuries on these islands, and as a musician carrying forward my family’s traditions, this event touches a sacred place deep within my na‘au, my soul.

The ceremony offers a moment unlike any other — a chance to honor loved ones who have passed, to voice silent prayers and to join thousands of others in a collective space of peace, reflection and healing. It is deeply personal. When I write a message on my lantern, I feel my ancestors gathered around me, their voices still present in the whisper of the waves. And yet, it is also profoundly communal — a reminder that my grief, my hopes and my prayers are shared by countless others across the world.

This beautiful ceremony represents a meaningful meeting between Hawaiian culture and Shinnyo-en Buddhist practice. Though we come from different traditions, the values we lift up — remembrance, interconnectedness and respect for life and legacy — are universal. In Hawaiian thought, the mana, or spiritual energy, of our kupuna (ancestors) continues to guide us. In Shinnyo teachings, the light of wisdom and compassion transcends life and death. Together, these philosophies create a sacred bridge between cultures, reminding us that our hearts beat to the same rhythm of love and loss.

In my work with Aloha Kuamo‘o ‘Aina, we labor to transform a place of historic conflict into a sanctuary of learning and reconciliation. This mission of healing resonates powerfully with the intent of the lantern floating ceremony. Every lantern sent across the water carries not only a memory, but a prayer for peace — peace in our families, our communities and our world.

As a descendant of the Beamer musical tradition, I understand that mele is not merely sound, but spirit. Music carries the voice of the unseen, the hand of healing. As the ‘ohe hano ihu (Hawaiian nose flute) sings, melodies will rise with the sweet murmur of the tide. It is not performance — it is prayer with wings. Each note weaving a lei of remembrance upon the waters, binding the diverse faces gathered along the shore into one ohana, one heartbeat, one shining hope.

The theme “Many Rivers, One Ocean” captures a profound and universal truth. No matter where we come from, no matter what hardships we have faced, we all flow toward the same great ocean of existence. Our tears, our dreams, our songs — they all mingle there, beyond divisions of language, race or faith. It is this truth that makes the ceremony so powerful: the understanding that we are not alone in our sorrows or in our hopes.

In today’s often troubled world, Shinnyo Lantern Floating Hawai‘i offers a rare and necessary moment of unity. It allows people of all backgrounds to stand side by side in compassion and solidarity. Through tradition, through art, through spiritual reflection, we weave together a tapestry of shared humanity, illuminated by the soft, flickering lights of remembrance.

On the one hanau (sands of our birth), as the final lanterns drift into the distance, and night falls over the ocean, I feel my heart buoyed by a simple but enduring hope — that the spirit of aloha will continue to shine, one lantern, one prayer, one song at a time.

Honoring A Son And Finding Peace At Shinnyo Lantern Floating Hawaiʻi

Love and shared emotions mark the annual healing event at Ala Moana.
By Paul Wessel, Lori Wessel, May 21, 2025.

(Originally published on Civil Beat)

In the two decades since the passing of their son, Paul and Lori Wessel have found healing and hope through community remembrance, particularly the annual Shinnyo Lantern Floating Hawai‘i ceremony. They continue to share their journey of grief and resilience to support others navigating loss. (Courtesy)

Once again, as that difficult time of the year for us approaches, we find ourselves looking back on the years since we lost our son, SPC Kevin Wessel, to the war in Iraq. Last month marked 20 years since he was taken from us.

The early years were difficult to navigate, even with the support of amazing family and friends. Fortunately, those challenging years were also filled with new discoveries and positive experiences.

One of those discoveries was the annual Shinnyo Lantern Floating Hawaiʻi ceremony. It’s an annual event that occurs on Memorial Day that we look forward to every year, despite the inherent sadness of the occasion the day holds for us.

For us, the overwhelming feeling of love and sense of shared emotions that we experienced as we released our first lanterns were (and continue to be) cathartic and healing.

When we first became affiliated with the lantern floating ceremony, we were still deep in the devastating grief a parent experiences after losing a child. We didn’t think we could ever look at life without the profound sadness and despair, and yes, even anger. But after releasing our first lantern, our healing began and our outlook began to change.

A Special Gift
Our feelings of hope returned along with a restored appreciation for the things that had once brought us joy. It is truly a special gift to be a part of such a huge gathering where the collective spirit is that of aloha, where strangers come together and share hugs with each other.

As people release their lanterns, there are no differences, just a shared understanding of grief that slowly brings a calming sense of peace. Those feelings grew with every lantern floating event we attended. Each name and every message we wrote on our lanterns helped to heal our broken hearts and in time we were able to view the world with renewed purpose.

We began to share what we’d experienced at Lantern Floating with some friends and reached out to many of our son’s military friends, some of whom suffer with the long-term psychological effects of war, hoping to share a part of our healing process and the critical role that this gathering had on us.

Some of them have made the journey to Hawaii themselves, and participated in the annual ceremony to honor and remember their deceased family members, friends, and battle buddies.

Kevin’s 20-year “angelversary” hit us hard this year, but reflecting on those 20 years reminded us of how much aloha continues to exist here. We’d like to express our appreciation to everyone involved with Shinnyo Lantern Floating Hawaiʻi for providing everyone with a safe space to grieve and remember.

As Memorial Day 2025 approaches Monday, we encourage those who have lost a loved one attend this year’s gathering at Ala Moana Beach Park.

For us, after spending the morning up at Punchbowl, we can think of no better way to honor our soldier son than to be on the beach at sunset on Memorial Day, surrounded by others who are remembering their loved ones.